“Jason Is My Friend”

petulant lurker wrote:

Why is it, gojo, now that I’m not a “stranger”, you won’t answer my questions? Am I that offensive? Am I that close to the truth? Which is it, gojo? This is not an “either/or” question. Answer, please. Oh I know I’m just a lowly lurker that should be ignored, but I do believe you know you can’t squirm away from this.Come on, old man, give the crowd something to roar about. An answer would suffice. NOW… thanks in advance. Why are you backing that loser “un son” Jason?Don’t give that stupid response that you have to be able to think about murder to be able to commit murder. I’m positive many people that would never have considered murder, have done just such a deed to get themselves out of a situation. The news is riddled with stories of people that save themselves from predators. Now, please answer my question. It’s only one - why back jason? What’s he done for you? How’s it working out for you in your community? I imagine your inner circle has been shrinking considerably - or do they not know you are backing the murderer? Pick one - just answer a question for a change.

So you are that insulting Lurker. Should
have recognized your insults.

Here’s a question for you: why all the insults
aimed at Jason? What’s he done to you?
You can’t possibly know guilty or innocent.

Your question? I’ve answered it many times.
You should take time to read past boards.
This would avoid repetition.
Simple: Jason is my friend.

==Gojo
_________________

Why all the insults aimed at Jason?  Because the stupid son of a bitch beat in his wife’s head.  His PREGNANT wife’s head.

What’s he done to Petulant, or any other poster?  Diminished the human race by one beautiful, positive, constructive, loving person, and a child who could have been the same as his mother.  In other words, made the world a worse place than it already is.

You can’t possibly know guilty or innocent.  Oh, can’t I?  I have news for you.  I do know.  And, on some level, so do you, or you would ASK THE BASTARD about it.

He’s your friend?  He is not your friend.  He used to be a kid who knew how to suck up to you.  Of course he would suck up to you.  His Mom and your wife were friends.  You were his teacher.  Your lives were intertwined to a degree only possible in a town of under 7,000 people. 

But he was NEVER your friend.  This man does not know how to be a friend.  Friends don’t let friends defend them on message boards when they are obviously guilty.

Save yourself.  Now.

 

Gojo Defines “Ladies.”

BS FOOLISHLY, IGNORANTLY SAID: Mrs. Young and Mrs. Gojo are both very civilized women

I reckon it’s about time you quit lying about your hometown, BSNRALEIGH. You’re obviously a city slicker who knows nothing about mountain women.

And you, obviously, know nothing about women, period. 

You call Mrs. Gojo or Mrs. Young ‘civilized’ you’d better be ready to duck. Duck twice and run if you accuse them of being ‘very civilized’. They are both ladies, and you’d better not forget it. They were born ladies.

Nobody is “born” a lady.  It’s learned behavior.

Nobody had to civilize them. Somebody did, or they would be mucking about in their own feces.

They are not ‘politically correct’ creatures who have been tamed to be humane, reasonable, and polished.

Where I come from, these qualities are considered to be good. 

Mountain women are born with an innate sense of morality and ethics.  

No.   People must be taught these things.

Manners they learn at their mother’s knee. They were taught mountain culture
and proud of it.

Learned.  See? 

Reasonable? Don’t even go there. You don’t, that’s for sure! 

Mountain ladies are the most unreasonable on earth. Their strict code of right and wrong will never bend, never compromise. Never accuse them of being ‘reasonable’.

So they, like you, will not listen to reason? 

BS, you should stick to commenting about something you know…..as soon as you find it. So should you. 
==Gojo

CITY-SLICKER DEFINITION: 1. Having a highly developed society and culture. TAMED.
2. Showing evidence of moral and intellectual advancement; humane, ethical, and reasonable: TAMED.
3. Marked by refinement in taste and manners; cultured; polished. TAMED

“City slicker, a synonym for fop, is an idiomatic expression for someone accustomed to a city or urban lifestyle and unsuited to life in the country. The term was typically used as a term of derision by rural Americans who regarded them with amusement.Slicker came from a Western term for an orphaned calf.  It referred to the naive nature of people from the Eastern cities. City slicker was derisively given to these Easterners for their assumption that their “book-learnin’ ” gave them superior intelligence. Nineteenth- and twentieth-century Westerners, particularly cowboys, used the Easterners’ perceived snobbish attitudes as justification for playing tricks—sometimes violent tricks—on them.City slickers appeared often as deceitful characters in U.S. comic strips and movies before the middle of the 20th century, but usually to be “outsmarted” by the native wisdom and common sense of the locals or to somehow otherwise get their just deserts in the end. The term is seldom used in rural areas today except in a joking manner by which both rural residents and urban visitors may explain missteps.”http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/City_slicker

Sorry, Gojo.  Uncivilized mountain women do not count as “ladies.”

Brad Paisley Says It All!

BRAD PAISLEY LYRICS

“Online”

I work down at the pizza pit
And I drive an old Hyundai
I still live with my mom and dad
I’m 5′3 and overweight

I’m a Sci-Fi fanatic
Mild asthmatic
Never been to 2nd base
But there’s a whole nother me
That you need to see
Go check out MySpace

’cause online I’m down in Hollywood
I’m 6′5 and I look damn good
I drive a Maserati
I’m a black belt in Karate
And I love a good glass of wine

It turns girls on that I’m mysterious
I tell ‘em I don’t want nothing serious
’cause even on a slow day I can have a three way
Chat with two women at one time

I’m so much cooler online
So much cooler online

I get home, I kiss my mom
And she fixes me a snack
I head down to my basement bedroom
And fire up my Mac

In real life the only time I
Ever even been to L.A.
Was when I got the chance with the marching band
To play tuba in the Rose Parade.

Online I live in Malibu
I posed for Calvin Kline, I’ve been in GQ
I’m single and I’m rich
And I got a set of six pack abs that’ll blow your mind

It turns girls on that I’m mysterious
I tell ‘em I don’t want nothing serious
’cause even on a slow day I can have a three way
Chat with two women at one time

I’m so much cooler online
Yeah I’m cooler online

When you got my kinda stats, it’s hard to get a date
Let alone a real girlfriend
But I grow another foot
And I lose a bunch of weight everytime I log in

Online I’m out in Hollywood
I’m 6′5 and I look damn good
Even on a slow day, I can have a three way
Chat with two women at one time

I’m so much cooler online
Yeah I’m cooler online
I’m so much cooler online
Yeah I’m cooler online

Bye Bye Belinda!

belinda Guest

It sure looks like the lonely and those without a life have been busy. When you can’t discuss a crime without spewing ugly things about posters its time for me to bow out. Some of you I feel sorry for others I think are just plain mean people. For those of you that are sick and don’t know any better I will pray for you . For the mean and ugly you are on your own. You will have to ask for your own forgiveness.

This, from one of the ugliest posting about this case.

Telling It Like It Is

gojo wrote:

Howdy, Allison. Last time I saw you was at Latter Rain. That’s just before they kicked you out for being an undesirable. Let’s see, why did the bitches there ban you? Lying? Being too bitchey? I forget.So now you want to come to this board with your lies? I reckon that won’t bother me. But I don’t know if the BBs here will put up with it.  They expect you to coordinate your lies with them so you’re all on the same page. No independents, you know. RPD likes to do this backdoor stuff, so I’d advise you to ring his PM sooner rather than later. He doesn’t like for his lies to be trumped.  Just friendly advice. Do what you want.==Gojo

Dear Gojo,I guess it is true what everyone is saying about you behind your back and that is, you have always thought you know everything but the reality is, you don’t. You think you know who I am, but the reality is, you don’t. How can I be banned from a message board that I have never been a member of? Latter Rain? I didn’t know what that was until a few weeks ago and I am not a member. Banned? Why would I be banned, Gojo? Because I know the truth about you and your boozing? Because I know that you THOUGHT all the kids at BHS liked you when in reality, they didn’t? They were only nice to you because everyone liked your kids. You, unfortunately, come with the package so you are tolerated. You live a very sad life, Gojo. Miserable. You should consider substitute teaching in the high schools or maybe teaching a course or two at one of the universities. Maybe that would fill the void in your life.Do you think you could get a job as a sub when all of your online activities from the last year are given to the faculty and staff of the high schools and the superintendant of the TCS? Or the university president? I don’t think they would like your style of teaching. Maybe Jason could write you a recommendation. That might help.

You parrot the same old mantra over and over. A poster who has any common sense and has formed an opinion that Jason is probably the murderer of his wife and son immediately becomes a BB (whatever that means) or follows RPD’s lead and is a member at Latter Rain. Wrong.

Guess what Goins? You are wrong on all counts. And guess what else, Goins? There are tons of folks in Brevard who would love nothing more than to see you fall flat on your face. They are more than willing to share information on you and Jason. Information that has been verified by more than one source and paints a picture that puts you in a very unflattering light.

So, Mr.Goins, again you are wrong.

And I am telling no lies. You have NO WAY of knowing what is said about you behind your back around town. I doubt you have asked Jason if he disliked you and laughed at you, because you don’t want to know the truth. It will smack you in the face and you don’t have the courage or the testicular fortitude to ask that question. Because you know that when he denies it, you are going to have doubt, because you know Jason has been known to tell a lie or two. And then you will realize you have wasted the last 14 months of your life defending a person who could care less about you. A person who PRETENDS to like you because pretending and going with the flow is much easier than swimming against the current.

I expected an attack from you, because the recipient always wants to attack the messenger, but you know what I say is true. Your words don’t hurt me. Same old, same old.

You’re losing it, Goins. And everyone knows it. EVERYONE.

And you know how you said mountain people hug their grudges and hold on tight to them?

Something tells me you have never seen the likes of the grudge the friends and family of a murdered woman hold against those who slander and defile them.

Very Sincerely,

Allison

Perfect, without any embellishment or argument from me.

And, The Other Side of Gojo’s Mouth

gojo
Joined: 05 Jan 2008
Posts: 509

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 11:07 am Post subject:

Nothing but the usual mean-spirited insults.
Nothing creative, nothing even intelligent.
Just tiresome.

…..You’re a real piece of work, gojo.–Scout
…..I hope you rot in hell–Spring.
…..What a Dumba$$–Karen
…..What a sad, sad commentary.–Agatha
…..Gojo has been an arrogant a$$–BS

And one intelligent comment:

I am sure that Linda and Meredith knew going in that they might be turned away at the door. They took a chance to get to see CY the only way they can at the moment.–Lilismom
++++++++++++++++++
My thoughts, too, Lilismom, only you said it much better.
They drove five hours just for a chance for a visit. This
was the only way they could hope to see Cassie. Very sad
situation. I like to think I would have done the same
as the Fishers and taken the chance.

==Gojo

Now, before we get all misty and teary-eyed, thinking that the old codger has decided to have a heart, please notice that he says, and I quote:  “I like to think I would have done the same…”  Not that he would have, or that he thinks he would have, but that he’d like to think he would have.

He’d like to think Jason is innocent, too, but that one is wearing a bit thin.

And he starts off the post pointing out insults heaped on him.  This from the man who can probably type the word “idiot” in his sleep.

So, what happened between 9:16 and 11:07 that caused Gojo to produce a crocodile tear of sympathy?  How did Linda and Co. get from being a security breach to something Gojo would like to think he could emulate?

 Anyone…anyone…Bueller?

Yet Another Threat?

gojo
Joined: 05 Jan 2008
Posts: 509

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:26 am Post subject:

By the way, Gracia, too bad your cousin wasn’t aware
of the visit. She could have walked across the
street and chatted with the Fishers. She could have
learned the latest updates and shared what she learned
from you. Assuming, of course, she went to work
yesterday. Did she?

==Gojo

So, here we have Gojo letting Gracia know that he has searched out her cousin, and knows where she works.  If his information is accurate, this is supposed to put the fear of Gojo into Gracia and her cousin.  What Gracia actually did was tell the cousin, who lives in this very insular community, what the “buzz” is in the outside world.

She might as well have given a generator, a Wii, and a copy of Guitar Hero to the kids in an Amish community.  Probably not illegal, but frowned upon.

But, is it also a “phishing” expedition?  Is he trying to get Gracia to confirm that her cousin does indeed work there, and hence, is indeed the person Gojo believes her to be?

Probably best ignored.

The Many Sides

Gojo greeted the day with this, in response to a post from Gracia: Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 9:16 am    Post subject:
GRACIA SAID: God bless them. They deserve at least an hour of shared happiness with that precious little girl. ============ And why is that, Gracia? They deserve it because of loudly and publicly calling the precious little girl’s daddy a killer? They deserve a chance to convince the precious little girl? Ain’t gonna happen. I don’t see the situation getting any better until someone loudly and publicly reverses direction. Unfortunately, it would seem that ain’t gonna happen. I hope I’m wrong. I’m sure you’ll be happy to know that the security issue at the daycare has been addressed. Never again will four strangers be allowed to walk in and visit with any of the children. That was scary. ==Gojo There was a rumor once, a long time ago, that Linda had been heard to say at Michelle’s funeral, that Jason killed her.  Of course, because it’s Linda, to Gojo that’s “loudly and publicly.”  Of course, the obvious doesn’t occur to Gojo–that she may well be right.  However, in Gojo’s world, anyone who says anything remotely detrimental toward Jason is eligible for public execution at dawn. I have to also state, that, if I were the one with the oportunity to visit my granddaughter on her birthday, I’d be much more interested in hugging and cuddling and laughing than in telling the little girl, “You know, Sweetie, Daddy beat Mommy’s head in.” I would like to see some loud and public reversals of direction, myself.  I would like the Young clan to admit that they are afraid of what Cassie will say to Linda, not the other way around.  I would like them to tell their chickenshit son to march his ass down to the Wake County Sheriff’s Department and straighten this whole thing out. Shame on them to be using Cassidy in their little game of control.  Sorry, Gojo.  Lying, or recanting a belief to save your hide, or anything else, is frowned on in most Christian denominations, and only the devil tempts people to do that.  Think about that one a while. Security at the daycare?  What is this, the White House?  Please!  It’s a small-town church!  there is no security issue.  It was a birthday visit from blood relatives.  NOT STRANGERS! I am sure that, if it comes to a custody hearing, their actions today will stand the Fishers in good stead.  They violated no laws, and this comes under the heading of doing the best they can to maintain contact with Cassidy.  In spite of the Youngs trying to prevent it.

Gojo Has Left the Building (Again)

An Error Has Occurred An Error Has Occurred gojo does not exist.

A Threat, or Not A Threat?

Gracia said: 

I spent the day over in Brevard today, with a cousin of mine.
She was not born and raised in the area( neither was I ) but first came to the area for her first teaching position, right out of college several years back.
As she now is a professor at Brevard College, I have never thought about her teaching any where else in Brevard. But today I casually mentioned this case, and asked her if she knew Jason or his family, etc. She taught at Brevard HS her first 3 years teaching, which I had forgotten. JY was a student of hers’ his senior year. She knows quite a few of the clan, in fact!
And she has been told there is no way he could have commited the murder because he was at his mother’s that night! I corrected her, but she was very sure she had been told that Jason was in Brevard and at his mother’s on that Thursday evening!
Is this the story that the family is passing through Brevard?

Several people commented, and then Gojo was in the house:

GRACIA SAID: I sure didn’t mean any harm , just wanted to share this with you all.
Maybe I shouldn’t have.
=================

That’s wrong, Gracia. Don’t apologize. You should feel free
to share anything you believe about the homicide. Don’t let anyone censor you.

What you believe, what I believe, what your cousin believes is
not important.

However, I hope you were fair in your news accounts to your
cousin. Since she lives in Brevard, what she says to her friends
might influence Jason’s reputation in Brevard. All anyone can ask
is that you be fair in what you present as fact and rumor. Eventually
the truth will out, even in Brevard.

==Gojo

And then he said:

Howdy, Gracia,

An interesting story you told about your Brevard cousin.
I reckon you and others are probably surprised and
maybe a little disappointed that people in Brevard
seem unaware of the message board buzzing about
Jason.

I’m looking forward to talking with your Brevard cousin
again, after all these years. I reckon I’ll find it interesting
to see what facts she has now and what she believes now
after spending a day with you. Interesting, and enlightening,
I reckon. I’m sure she will fill you in on our conversation.

Keep in touch,

==Gojo

Another poster speculated:

So what’s next? Gojo tracks down Gracia’s cousin and regales her with stories about Gracia’s gratuitous posting on a message board, pumps the cousin for Gracia’s personal information, and tried to get Gracia fired?

Or tries to convince Gracia’s cousin that Gracia has been misled by the big bad internet, and that Cousin should get her information from a “trusted” source, like…oh…maybe a retired teacher?

Keep in touch with your cousin, Gracia. If Gojo contacts her, she may have some interesting stories to tell you…

Gojo further responded to Gracia:

GRACIA SPOUTED: I’m alarmed at the threats spouted! I shouldn’t be though, right?
I hesitate to say more, as I may get myself and relatives ambushed.
============

Nope. You should be alarmed. Anytime someone
threatens you or family, you should respond.
Please let me know if I can help.

Maybe those threats are why your cousin disappeared.
College officials told me they would keep an eye
out for her. If she shows up, they will provide
security for her. Hope you warned her about the dangers
of talking and cooperating.

I certainly agree with your last statement. The more
you say, the more likely it is that someone will
ambush you. Sssshhhhhh.

==Gojo

I find this absolutely stunning!  The same person threatening (in a folksy sort of way) to look up Gracia’s cousin and discuss with her what Gracia told her, now alludes to the cousin possibly having disappeared.

This is the same person who made complaints about a Raleigh news reporter and tried to get her fired.

Hypocrisy, thy name is Gojo.